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Monday, March 30, 2009

Jangan Bersedih, Bacalah Kaedah-kaedah Menuju Bahagia

Ketahuilah bahawa jika anda tidak dalam batasan hari ini, tentu fikiran anda akan melayang ke mana-mana. Seterusnya, semua urusan menjadi kacau-bilau serta kecemasan dan kedukaan anda akan menjadi lebih banyak. Inilah makna sabda Rasulullah Shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam:

Bila engkau berada pada pagi hari, janganlah menunggu datangnya petang hari.
Bila engkau berada pada petang hari, janganlah menunggu datangnya waktu pagi.


2. Lupakan masa lalu dan semua yang pernah terjadi. Tumpukan diri anda pada masa kini kerana memikirkan masa lalu dan sesuatu yang telah selesai merupakan kebodohan dan menyebabkan kegilaan.

3. Jangan menyibukkan diri dengan masa depan, sebab ia masih berada di alam ghaib. Jangan fikirkan himgga datang dengan sendirinya.

4. Jangan mudah tergoncang oleh kritikan. Teguhkan pendirian anda dalam menghadapinya, dan sedarilah bahawa kritikan itu akan mengangkat hara diri anda setara dengan kritikan tersebut.

5. Beriman kepada Allah, beramal soleh adalah kehidupan baik dan bahagia.

6. Barangsiapa menginginkan ketenangan, ketenteraman dan kesenangan, maka berzikirlah kepada Allah.

7. Setiap hamba harus menyedari bahawa segala sesuatu yang terjadi itu berdasarkan ketentuan qadha' dan qadar.

8. Jangan menunggu ucapan terima kasih dari seseorang.

9. Persiapkan diri anda untuk menerima kemungkinan terburuk.

10. Kemungkinan yang terjadi itu ada baiknya untuk diri anda.

11. semua ketentuan Allah (qadha') bagi seorang muslim adalah baik baginya.

12. Berfikirlah tentang nikmat, lalu bersyukurlah.

13. Percayalah bahawa apa yang anda miliki jauh lebih banyak daripada yang dimiliki orang lain.

14. Dari semasa ke semasa selalu sahaja ada jalan keluar.

15. Dengan musibah hati akan tergerak untuk berdoa.

16. Musibah itu akan menajamkan nurani dan menguatkan hati.

17. Sesungguhnya akan setiap kesulitan terdapat kemudahan.

18. Jangan hancurkan hidup anda hanya kerana perkara-perkara remeh.

19. Sesungguhnya Tuhan kamu itu Maha Luas keampunanNya.

20. Jangan marah, jangan marah, jangan marah!

21. Janganlah risau hanya kerana tidak mempunyai harta dunia, sebab kehidupan ini tidak lebih hanya sekadar sepotong roti, seteguk air, dan bayangan.

22. (Dan, di langit terdapat (sebab-sebab) rezekimu dan terdapat (pula) apa yang dijanjikan kepadamu.) (Adz-Dzariyat:22)

23. Kebanyakan dari apa yang anda takutkan tidak akan berlaku.

24. Pada orang-orang yang tertimpa musibah itu adalah suri teladan.

25. Sesungguhnya jika Allah mencintai suatu kaum, maka Dia akan memberikan cubaan atas mereka.

26. Ulangilah doa-doa untuk menghapuskan bencana.

27. Anda perlu melakukan kebaikan dan menghasilkannya, dan tinggalkanlah kekosongan atau pengangguran.

28. Tinggalkanlah semua deasa-desus dan jangan percaya kepada khabar angin.

29. Kedengkian dan keinginan anda yang kuat untuk membalas dendam itu hanya akan membahayakan kesihatan anda sendiri, lebih besar daripada bahaya yang menimpa daripda bahaya yang akan menimpa pihak lawan.

30. Setiap musibah yang menimpa diri anda adalah penghapus dosa-dosa.

Sunday, March 29, 2009

Jangan Bersedih Bila Seseorang Menyakiti Anda

1. Tanyakan pada diri anda: Apa kemungkinan terburuk yang akan terjadi?

2. Persiapkan diri anda untuk menerima dan menghadapinya.

3. Kemudian, hadapi dengan tenang untuk menjadikan kemungkinan terburuk itu menjadi lebih baik.

(Iaitu) orang-orang (yang mentaati Allah dan Rasul) yang kepada mereka ada orang-orang yang mengatakan: "Sesungguhnya manusia telah mengumpulkan pasukan untuk menyerang kamu, kerana itu takutlah kepada mereka," maka perkataan itu menambah keimanan mereka dan mereka menjawab: "Cukuplah Allah menjadi Penolong kami dan Allah adalah sebaik-baik Pelindung."
(Ali Imran:173)

Renungan:
Firman Allah Subhanahu wa Taála di dalam surah Ah-Thalaq, ayat 3:

..... dan, barangsiapa bertaqwa kepada Allah, nescaya Dia akan mengadakan baginya jalan keluar. Dan memberinya rezeki dari arah yang tiada disangka-sangka. Dan barangsiapa bertawakal kepada Allah nescaya Allah akan mencukupkan (keperluan)nya.... (Ath-Thalaq:3)

..... Allah kelak akan memberikan kelapangan setelah kesempitan. (Ath-Thalaq:7)

Rasulullah Shallallahu álaihi wasallam bersabda:

Ketahuilah, bahawa pertolongan itu datang sesudah kesabaran; kelapangan datang sesudah kesulitan; dan kemudahan datang sesudah kesulitan.

Dalam sebuah hadis qudsi Allah Ta'ala berfirman:

Aku sesuai persangkaan hambaKu terhadapKu, maka silakan dia berprasangka terhadapKu sesuai kehendaknya.

Firman Allah Subhanahu wa Taála:

..... maka Allah akan memelihara kamu dari mereka. Dan Dialah Yang Maha Mendengar lagi Maha Mengetahui. (Al-Baqarah:137)

Dan bertawakallah kamu kepada Yang Maha Hidup dan tidak pernah mati..... (Al-Furqan:58)

..... mudah-mudahan Allah akan mendatangkan kemenangan (kepada RasulNya)
atau sesuatu keputusan dari sisiNya.....
(Al-Maídah:52)

Tidak ada yang menyatakan terjadinya hari itu selain Allah. (An-Najm:58)

Al-Husain bin Mathir Al-Asdi berkata:

Bila Allah memudahkan urusan
tentu semua menjadi mudah
yang keras menjadi lembut
yang sukar menjadi senang.
Berapa banyak orang tamak
yang tidak memenuhi keperluannya
berapa pula masa mendatangkan berita gembira.
Berapa banyak penakut
menjadi menakutkan dan mengerikan
berapa banyak orang yang hemah menjadi kaya
dan berapa banyak peristiwa yang manis
menjadi pahit.
Sungguh dunia menipu
orang kaya boleh jadi fakir
sedang orang fkir boleh jadi kaya
setelah melalui kesulitan.
Dan berapa banyak yang telah kita saksikan
orang hidup dalam kekotoran,
sedangkan lainnya menjadi suci
setelah membersihkan kotorannya.

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

sudirman Maya



Tok senikatanya.
Tiadaku duga bertemu lagi
Sekian lama menghilang diri
Aku terbayang kenangan datang waktu kecil dulu

Ku pimpin tanganmu di hujan lebat
Berlari riang d tengah padang
Ku tarik rambutmu kau marah padaku , manisnya waktu itu

Maya
Tak pernah ku lupa padamu
kau comel kau nakal temanku
Selalu kita bersama
Sayangku Maya, Kini kau telah dewasa
Gadis jelita sungguh manja terkenang semula

Maya
Masihkah ingatku lagi, adakah tercapai sudah hasratmu d hati
Sayang ku Maya
Terangkan padaku sayang, masih kah dikau gemar suara n nyanyianku
repeat chorus.....

Friday, February 27, 2009

Moles :


Moles and what they say about you

Talking about moles. I was born with a mole on the right side corner of my lips.It was just a small one at first but later on it gets bigger and bigger with a hair growing in the middle.....I decided to get rid of it when I read an article saying that this type of mole can be cancerious. I told my hubby about it and he was skeptical.He said that without that mole, it will not be me anymore .He has known me with that mole all his life.This mole was at position 25. So one day, I decided to get rid of the mole myself. I bought pearl powder cream from sinsei shop and follow it instruction of how to get rid of the mole.and thank God only after two days the mole just fall off but the most disappointing thing is that my husband did not even notice it until only recently when he happen to see my old picture with my mole .Amusingly he started to compare me now without the mole and the picture with the mole.He said I am sweeter with the mole, I look more exotic but now that its gone, I was just plain. Manas aku olehnya tapi apa boleh buat, taik lalat udah d buang, nak molah gene.Ngekot kata article tok taik lalat aku ya bertuah , boleh molah famous.he he ada kah patut .


First, check your face for any moles, and then look at the diagram above to identify the number(s) that are a closest match to the moles on your face. Usually, the moles only hold meaning for you if they are prominent and they are the only one.. If your face if full of spots, acne or "little" moles, they do not count. When you ' ve ascertained which position corresponds to the mole on your face, look up the meanings listed by numbers below.

Position 1 to 3
As a child, you are somewhat rebellious and a free spirit. You have an innate creativity and work best when you are given a free hand. Generally, your superiors like your avante garde approach to life. If you have a mole here, you are far better off in business and being your own boss rather than working for somebody. What is promising is that you have the luck to be your own boss.

Position 4
You are an impulsive person, often acting with a flamboyance that gives you charisma and a sparkling personality, but you can be difficult when there are too many opinions. You tend to be rather argumentative, but never to the point of holding grudges. This mole tends to give you an explosive temper and should you decide to remove it, you will find yourself becoming calmer and more at peace with the world..

Position 5
A mole above the eyebrow indicates that there is wealth luck in your life, but you will need to earn it and work harder than most people. All the income you make must be carefully kept as there are people who are jealous of you who might attempt to sweet talk you into parting with your wealth. Be wary of those who try to interest you in get-rich-quick schemes. If you have a mole here, it is advisable not to be too trusting of others. Follow your instincts and be cautious. And never allow other people to control your finances.

Position 6
A mole here indicates intelligence, creativity and skill as an artist. Your artistic talent can bring you wealth, fame and success. It also indicates wealth luck, but this can only be fully realized if you follow your heart rather than stick to conventional means of making a living. Success will come if you are brave.

Position 7
Moles under the eyebrows indicate arguments within the extended family that cause you grief and unhappiness. This will affect your work and livelihood. It is advisable to settle any differences you have with your relatives if you want peace of mind to move ahead.

Position 8
This is not a very good position for a mole. Your financial position will constantly be under strain because of a tendency to overspend. You also have a penchant for gambling. The only thing is you must know when to stop. Meanwhile, someone with a mole here has a tendency to flirt with members of the opposite sex as well as with the same sex. Better be a little discerning where you exert your charms, or you might get into trouble.

Position 9
This mole position suggests sexual and other problems. It is an unfortunate mole and you are well advised to get rid of it. It brings a litany of woes and a parade of problems.

Position 10
A mole here just under the nose indicates excellent descendants luck. You are surrounded by family at all times and will have many children and grandchildren. You have the support of those close to you and will be both materially and emotionally fulfilled.

Position 11
Moles here suggest a tendency to succumb to illness. It is a good idea to have this mole removed especially if it is a large, dark-coloured mole. Otherwise use lots of foundation to cover it.

Position 12
A mole here foretells a successful but also a very balanced life. You are likely to be not just rich, but famous as well. But although you have every opportunity to live the high life, you will have a satisfying home and family life as well. Women with moles here are particularly lucky and tend to be beautiful and glamourous as well.

Position 13
Your children will be a big worry in your life. Your relationship with them is not good. There is nothing much you can do about this except to learn some tolerance.

Position 14
A mole here suggests a vulnerability to food which can be a big problem in your life. You may have allergies against certain foods or you may simply be eating too much.

Position 15
You are a person always on the move and constantly renovating and redesigning your house. You like to be introduced to new things and see new places. You are not happy if you remain in one place for long. You enjoy travel and adventure, and have a very observant eye.

Position 16
You need to be careful when it comes to eating, and also when it comes to your sex life. These are your two biggest problems. You tend to have weight issues which can make you depressed. You enjoy romance, sometimes with more than one person, but because you are a person with some morality, you will feel guilty about it and this will cause you much stress.

Position 17
You will be someone of great social prominence. You are active on the social scene and an excellent conversationalist. There is a tendency to become bigheaded about your success, which could lose you your good name. This will affect you deeply because you draw your confidence and self worth from what others think of you.

Position 18
You are a person always on the move. There is a great deal of overseas travel in your life, but you should take extra care each time you cross the great waters, as your mole prefers you to stay at home.

Position 19
You have money luck and many good friends, so this is a good mole to have. Your weakness is that you tend to succumb to the charms of the opposite sex. In your life, it is this that could get you into hot water, so do cool your ardour!

Position 20
A mole here can be very lucky or very unlucky. If you have a mole here, you are destined either for extreme fame or infamy. You have great flair for creativity and are also highly intelligent, but your talents can be used for both good and bad. You are not a person to be trifled with for you are no pushover and do not forgive and forget easily. This mole is a mark of someone who will go down in history either as a great or as a tyrant.

Position 21
This is a good mole, as it suggests plenty to eat and drink throughout your life. This mole also brings fame and recognition.

Position 22
Your life is always happy and things go smoothly for you. You could well become a sports superstar if you have the passion for it. Moles at the end of eyebrows also suggest a person of authority and power, so if you are the CEO of a company, you will do very well.

Position 23
You have a high IQ, and you are both brain smart and street smart. You have a highly-developed survival instinct and will lead a meaningful and long life. You will be active until a very old age and will have friends and family around you till the very end.

Position 24
You will achieve fame and fortune in your young age and you are advised to use this period to safeguard your old age, as people with moles here tend to have a harderlife as they get older.

Position 25
You will enjoy good prosperity and recognition luck, but do be careful of excesses. Stay traditional in your attitudes and you will have a long and fruitful life.

Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Sudah berulang Hatiku membisikkan

Dan Dengarlah
Kau Bukan Barang
Yang Ku beri nilai
Kau bukanlah intan
Meski Mahal di jual
Kau adalah Hati yang di mana akan di ganti
Kalau ia hilang dan aku takkan dapat mencari

Keciwa hanya pada rasa kita Berdua
Aku atau Engkau entah
Siapa nanti Hilang
Sebab kita takkan ujud
Bila sekali telah tiada
Sedang setia menjelma sentiasa
Di antara kasih kita berdua

Senyummu semalam berikan lagi
Hari ini
Kasih dulu curahkan lagi ke tasik hati
Sebagaimana aku melakukan Tiap Saat ketika
Hingga subur dan hidup pada tiap ruang udara.


Silk Road - Kitaro

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

Nama² Allah-lah,kunci dasar dari Ihsan,Rukun Iman & Rukun Islam itu.Alam semesta beserta isinya tercipta karena kehendak Nama² Allah tersebut.Hukum² fisika & hukum sosial pun terbentuk karena 'Kehendak Suara Hati' Allah itu.Kemajuan ilmu pengetahuan & teknologi baik sosial maupun eksakta tercipta karena Suara Hati Allah.Suara hati anda,juga suara hati kita semua bersumber dari suara hati Allah Ynag Maha Mulia dan Maha Benar.





Buat renungan kita bersama.Bersedialah menghadapi hal yang paling buruk dalam hidup kita,maka kita akan memperoleh habuan ketenangan jiwa.Bersikap positif dan optimislah dalam hidup jika hari ini kita menghadapi hal yang tidak baik percayalah bahawa ia akan berakhir dan hari esok akan menyusul membawa khabar gembira dan kebahagiaan.Bertekak & bertikam lidah akan menghilangkan kesucian hati dan keindahan.Maka bersihkan suara hati dengan Asma Ul-Husna.

Allah yg mmiliki Asmaa-ul Husna (nama nama yg Agung yg sesuai dgn sifat sifat Allah) maka memohonlah kepada Nya dengan menyebut Asmaa-ul Husna itu.QS Al A raaf 7:180

1. Cara paling efektif mempergunakan barometer suara hati adalah ketika anda d hadapkan pada suatu pilihan dan pada satu kejadian, d mana anda harus membuat suaatu keputusan. Pada momen inilah "berpikir melingkar"harus bekerja/dlakukan. Lakukan Thawaf Suara Hati.

2. Pertimbangkan seluruh Asmaul Husna yg relevan saat itu.

CATATAN PENTING

1. Tidak boleh hanya mempergunakan satu suara hati saja , dengan mengabaikan suara hati lain.

2. Apabila menghadapi suatu pilihan yg sulit, berpikirlah melingkar, lakukan THAWAF SUARA HATI . Ingatlah suara suara hati yg lain.Ësa Lah"dalam perpikir dan bertindak (komprehensif)

3. Pergunakan suara suara hati itu untuk memahami perasaan org lain dlm bersosialisasi

4. Ingat, mempergunakan salah satu suara hati secara berlebihan dan menutup suara hati yg lain adalah "strategi Setan" untuk menjerumuskan kita. Beberapa contoh:Ingin berkuasa,tetapi tidak adil. Ingin kaya tetapi tidak jujur.

5. Manusia hanyalah hamba yg ingin mendekat kepada sifat sifat Allah (Taqarrub Illallah)